Lecture 9 - Relationships and Attraction Flashcards

1
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what relationships make better

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  • overall life quality
  • less disorder
  • instrumental: more social opportunities
  • men profit more
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2
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men after breakup

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  • recover slower than women

- higher suicidaility

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3
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how do beautiful people benifit

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  • are seen as having a better character

- more likely to get what they want

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4
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drawbacks of beauty

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  • seen as vein

- no bigger self-esteem

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5
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most important on women

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waist to hip ration: .7 to .8

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6
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men’s bodyweight preferences

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  • depend on food scarcity
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7
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what makes a face attractive

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  • symetry
  • prototypicality
  • no abnormalities
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8
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cognitive averaging theory

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  • our facial beauty preferences are just a mere exposure effect
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9
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baby face

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  • always attractive in women, sometimes in men

- latter seen as more naive but get lower prison sentences

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10
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dominance bias

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  • only in men

- dominant but also colder

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11
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matching phenomenon

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  • we’re attracted to similarily attractive people
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12
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complementarity in relationships

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  • not causal, emerges later
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13
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mirrored images

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  • we like our mirror image more
  • our friends our real image
  • a mere exposure effect
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14
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passionate love

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  • intense longing
  • touching
  • physical arousal
  • excitation transfer
  • neccessary to fall in love
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15
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Duffer and Aron

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Bridge experiment 1974

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16
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companionate love

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  • deep connection
  • occurs in 90 to 95% of couples after a while
  • the rest is maybe true love
17
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social penetration theory

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  • telling someone everything
  • usually reciprocal
  • women open up faster
  • faster in individualistc cultures
18
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investment model

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  • Rushult
    1. satisfaction = fairness and absolute level
    1. qualitiy of alternatives
  • > determines if relationship ends or continues
19
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destructive - active

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  • exit

- e.g. threaten

20
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destructive - passive

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  • neglect

- e.g. ignore

21
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contructive - active

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  • voice

- e.g. discuss

22
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constructive - passive

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  • loyalty

- e.g. forgive

23
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positive illusion

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  • most couples think their relationshp is better

- become bigger when relatinship is threatened

24
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good predictor of realtionship satisfaction

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  • including the Other in the the self
25
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preoccupational attachment style

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  • high trust
  • low self-esteem
  • jealousy
  • demanding
  • feeling unworthy
26
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dismissing avoidant

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  • low trust
  • short term relations and one night stands
  • high confidence
  • low commitment
27
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fearful avoidant

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  • expect rejection
  • alone
  • uncommited
  • low trust
28
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attachment figure and its functions

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  • safe haven
  • secure base
  • seperation distress
29
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secure attachment

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  • easily comforted
30
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  • preoccupied and fearful-avoidant
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  • extremely distressed when left

- hardly comforted

31
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dismissive-avoidant

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  • comfortable with stranger

- avoid caregiver after he’s come back