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1
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family systems theory: families are _______

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interdependent

2
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Owens, Marinella, & Metz 2015: a patient might spend __ hours a week with an SLP and __ awake hours with family

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2; 110

3
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May 2013 dept. of labor: people __ years and older without disabilities= __% unemployment rate

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16; 6.9

4
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May 2013 dept. of labor: people __ years and older with disabilities= __% unemployment rate

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16; 13

5
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what kinds of contracts do marriages have?

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verbal and nonverbal

6
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what is dream when you get married?

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live happily ever after
successful family
nice balance: personal life/career
nice home
be together forever
plenty of \$\$
good retirement
7
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factors in preserving marriage: when ____ is mild; tolerable substitutions made for lost activities; if well spouse is prone to nurturance, he/she ____

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disability; easily slips into caregiver role

8
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working with spouses: pay lots of attention to who?

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well spouse- educate and support him/her

9
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working with spouses: include spouse in what 2 areas?

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assessment and treatment

10
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working with spouses: let spouse ___; provide _____

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vent; a support group

11
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Cabon & Cohn 2012: if one spouse has a degenerative disease, the well spouse has to simultaneously do what 2 things?

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take on extra burdens

promote sick spouse’s independence as much as possible

12
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working with parents: 2 most important variables in CH’s improvement are parents’ ____ and _____

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personal qualities; strength of their marital relationship

13
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working with parents: list some parents’ personal qualities (7: a-t)

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adaptability
communication
humility
patience
proactive
resilient
teamwork
14
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when a CH is born with a disability, ____ is most destructive to a marriage

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anger

15
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term for: when parents fight over little, unrelated things

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displacement

16
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with guilt comes the _____

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supereducated parent

17
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when a CH born with a disability, men are seen as the what?

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family protector

feel helpless and deny reality; may turn to affairs/work extra hours

18
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when a CH born with a disability, many women do what?

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postpone/lose careers

19
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give parents permission to _____

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take care of themselves

20
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if parents are happy as ___ and ____, CH will be better off

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individuals; couples

21
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research has found: families with higher ___ have more choices for coping/more varied support

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SES

22
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research has found: greater stress: parents who felt that their caretaking responsibilities for disabled children took time away from ____

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their spouse, other children, self

23
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research: caring for a chronically sick/disabled child accelerated ____ in mothers

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aging

24
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research: CH’s ____ problems causes parents far more stress than child’s ____

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behavior; cognitive delays

25
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research: what is helpful in decreasing stress?

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respite care

26
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research: parents of disabled ____ experience more stress than parents of disabled ____

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boys; girls

27
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Naseef, NA, 2001 wrote a book about being father of severely autistic boy. he interviewed couples who had a disabled CH and found that men wanted women to understand they were _____ and ___ when they couldn’t make things better

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doing their best; frustrated

28
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men wanted ____ with their wives as couples

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more time alone

29
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men wanted women to be more ____ and ____

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rational, less emotional

30
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men wanted ____ responsibility for special needs CH; women need to ____ and let men help

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more; get out of the way

31
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Naseef, NA, 2001 found that women wanted men involved in CH’s ______; tired of going to ___

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education; meetings alone

32
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women wanted time by themselves to ____

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relax without CH

33
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women want to talk about their _____ without men getting _____

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feelings; defensive

34
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women wanted men to develop a better ____ of their CH’s special needs and not _____

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understanding; leave everything to them

35
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that mothers often felt ____ with their CH

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overwhelmed

36
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that mothers often felt no time to spend with ___ or ___

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SO; other CH

37
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that mothers often felt no time for ____ so stressed out

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myself

38
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that mothers often felt that their husband feels: along with cooking, cleaning, disciplining, our _____ is my problem/responsibility

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special needs CH

39
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that mothers often felt “I am concerned my husband is ___ of our CH”

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afraid

40
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that fathers often felt _____ which is my primary responsibility; wife takes care of ____

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I work; kids

41
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that fathers often felt “i try to help my wife but she is more ____”

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effective

42
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that fathers often felt “my son listens more to ____”

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my wife than me

43
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that fathers often felt “after working all day, i don’t want to be bothered with the _____ in the house”

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noisy havoc

44
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Tiegerman-Farber & Radziewicz found that fathers often felt “i need to ___ in morning, can’t stand confusion/screaming/mess”

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go to work

45
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Robinson, T. (2015) tips on delivering bad news: sit where in relation to parents?

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next to them

46
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Robinson, T. (2015) tips on delivering bad news: never disagree with ____ in front of ____

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professionals; parents

47
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Robinson, T. (2015) tips on delivering bad news: if parents are resistant to ____, explain that ST is old enough to be involved and there will be more buy in if s/he understands

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labeling